Taking Another's
Point of View
There are endless
occasions to express our own point of view. It is invariably limited, a
mere part, maybe even false. Others can fill us in with the missing
truths and parts of a matter, enabling us to know the
Whole. It is always available if we are willing to take another's
point of view. Mind is exclusive; it does not want to hear other sides
of a matter.
Hence
our
essential Ignorance.
When we take another's position,
however, we move
out of Ignorance in that moment and embrace the wider truths.
Even if that person seems dead wrong in our
eyes, we should consider the truth behind the words. There is always
something to be learned, so we can attain the many-sided knowledge.
Each time we do, life
will move in our favor.
A man didn't
want to work weekends at
a retail store when
requested to by his
boss. He thought he was
already working hard
during the week. One day
he shifted and accepted
the boss' point of view.
When he arrived that
weekend, he was suddenly
greeted with the biggest
sale of his life.
We know the part, not
all truths of a matter.
If we open to what
others say.
we not only gain a far
greater knowledge of a
matter, but sudden good
fortune moves in
our direction.
Often it is
life-changing.
Benefit of Taking
Another's Point of View
To make spiritual progress, it is often urged to look at the issue from
another man’s point of view. This is the view of understanding of truth
consciousness. Such an approach can have the ironic affect of protecting
you from harm or difficulties coming from others though knowledge that
comes your way, or otherwise be of great benefit or interest to you in
the short or long run. (MSS, paraphrased and expanded on)
Taking the Other Person's Point of View
Are you willing to take on this spiritual challenge? In the next few
days, when you are in conversation or discussion or debate with another,
switch your point of reference, and take the other person's point of
view. Accept it completely in your mind. If you are able to do that, you
have in essence had a spiritual experience. Taking the other person's
view is to shift out of ego, and away from the exclusivity of mind which
sees one part of the whole and takes it to be the entire whole. It is
instead a movement toward unity and oneness of being; a movement toward
integral perception and knowledge, as we recognize that there are other
parts of the truth we are unconscious of, that express through others,
no matter how much in the wrong they appear in our
minds to be to be. You will be
startled at the turn the conversation
takes thereafter,
and you may get a glimpse at the real
power that we have within to change the course of life around us.
Another's View
and Life Response
One way to arrive at this
mind of tomorrow is on any and all occasions to strive to take the other
man's point of view. It is another means of stepping into integral Truth
consciousness. Each time we do so, life opens up. Sudden good fortune
moves our way.
Taking Another's Point of View &
Life Response
Taking another's point of view is to shift
from ego to Other, which attracts the sudden arrival of fresh, new,
unexpected results.
Effect of Taking Other's Point of View
One side swallowing his ego to take the other side's point of view in a
conflicting conversation opens the floodgates of goodwill from each
side; at least until the gathered positive energy at that level is
spent.
Taking Opposite of Your
Opinion
Opening to the opposite of your opinion suddenly opens from all quarters
possibilities in areas you were earlier closed off from.
Taking Another's
Point of View
Let us
take a family where the atmosphere is quarrelsome. Let them teach
themselves to look at the ISSUE from another man’s point of view.
Suddenly all quarrels will vanish. When the spirit is awake it is
capable of seeing the other man’s point of view easily. (MSS)
Assent vs. Dissent
in Communications; Utilizing Sri Aurobindo's Thought
The
question of another and our answer are in the plane either as assent or
dissent (assent is not different from dissent). When we want to please
him and be pleasant to him, his dissent changes into assent. Any thought
of Sri Aurobindo taken into a context and allowed to express itself in
the context has that quality. (MSS)
Reversal of Belief
When you accept the opposite of what you currently believe, then those
whose views you opposed begin to believe the opposite of what they
previously believed.
Taking Another's Point of View as Supramental
Perception
Having the ultimate supramental truth consciousness is expressed by
taking the other person's point of view. Imagine you have a notion that
the other side contradicts in some manner. Now there appears to be
division. Then instead of reinforcing your position, which you believe
to be right, you shift your consciousness, and see their
contribution to the truth of the whole of the topic under discussion.
Recognizing the other's contribution to the Whole of the truth is to
have supramental perception. We shift from mind, which sees its own
slice of a truth, to the wider whole of the truth, which is expressed in
part by the other person. This has the effect of moving you to the whole
of the truth, being in Identity and Oneness with it, which is secretly
what we are seeking.
A Supramental Perception
Siddhartha’s
revelation [in Hermann Hesse's book Siddhartha] that in every
truth the opposite is equally true is a supramental perception. (MSS)
Learn from a Discussion
Our goal should not be to win a debate, bit to learn from the
discussion. Inner Silence, silent Will, and taking the other person's
point of view are spiritual techniques that will certainly go a long way
to achieving this goal.
Taking the Other Person's Point of View
-Taking the other
person's point of view is to activate the Supramental element in the
mind.
-Taking the other person's point of view is the all-comprehensive power
of life that puts the other person utterly at your disposal.... One will
find when he succeeds that he will be treated as a VIP of life giving
him the feeling for a while that he could accomplish anything he
attempts.
-To take the other man’s point of view is to take the view of life.
-Not to be selfish is to take the other man’s point of view.
-To take the other man’s point of view is to take the view of the
Divine. (Paraphrase of MSS)
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When one
takes the other man’s point of view, a supramental attitude, life
responds positively in kind. (MSS, slightly altered)
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If we give in to other
people's seemingly unimportant statements, blocking our own emerging
thoughts, we find that their seemingly small remarks open the doors to
vast new areas of discussion we had been only dimly aware of, or totally
ignorant of. Obliviousness is then turned into fresh amazement.
Scale of Taking
Another's Point of View
Taking the other's point of view is to acquire truth consciousness in
that moment. Such an interaction can be understood along an ascending
scale; from one's mannered tolerance, to the interest of an open
character, to a oneness from a center within that knows no separation
from their truth.
Consecration, Surrender Supports Taking the Other Person's View
An attitude
of consecration or surrender, it can be seen, will directly help one
acquire what arises in one's mind or what is spoken to one. It is an
attitude of humility of the mind to the subject he is listening or the
person he is listening to. When we can listen to someone with such an
attitude of humility, what he speaks becomes TRUE inside us. In extreme
cases, the theoretical possibility is one can learn to be a genius
listening to an idiot as the idiot is the inverted genius. One's
attitude of humility makes the idiot reverse his mind to the other side
of the genius which is withheld.
(MSS)
Taking The Other
Man’s Point of View
-Taking the other man's point of view is to activate the Supramental
element in the mind. Those who have tried it with bosses, customers,
partners, friends and children have been amazed by the results.
-To be able to take the view of anyone we deal with in any matter as a
rule is to take the view of life.
-It is a confined consecration, confined to one person. (MSS)
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The Westerner discovered that pleasing the customer increases
business. Though selfish, it is another man’s point of view,
a spiritual idea, as the Spirit considers the other
man’s profit as one’s own welfare. (MSS)
Scale of Taking
Another's Point of View
Taking the other's point of view is to acquire truth consciousness in
that moment. Such an interaction can be understood along an ascending
scale; from one's mannered tolerance, to the interest of an open
character, to a oneness from a center within that knows no separation
from their truth.
Consecration, Surrender Supports Taking the Other
Person's View
An attitude
of consecration or surrender, it can be seen, will directly help one
acquire what arises in one's mind or what is spoken to one. It is an
attitude of humility of the mind to the subject he is listening or the
person he is listening to. When we can listen to someone with such an
attitude of humility, what he speaks becomes TRUE inside us. In extreme
cases, the theoretical possibility is one can learn to be a genius
listening to an idiot as the idiot is the inverted genius. One's
attitude of humility makes the idiot reverse his mind to the other side
of the genius which is withheld.
(MSS)
Methods of Bringing a
Work Under One's Control:
Planning, Taking Another's Point of View, Rejoicing in the Growth of
Others
Man initiates the events, but rarely are they under his control.
Planning effectively largely brings the work - a chain of events - under
our control. This subject will teach him that men will largely come
under his control if he takes their point of view. One who rejoices in
the growth of others - the success of those who are working with him -
will never come under their control. (MSS)
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